The statement above👆is very very true. It's our good & bad side... our yin & yang. we are fighting our own demons...we crucify ourselves with self hate, negative, patterns & action for people who will never understand YOUR world due to what they were taught to believe. The power you hold inside of you is real. We are all GOD'S 🙏& GODDESSES 😇...an energy going through a school of the karmic human experience in the hopes of passing in order to obtain Spiritual Growth.. Once we realize who we are spiritually...everything else will follow suit..that is how the universal laws work.  ***Remember to live, love, Laugh & Let Go! Theresa Cattouse  Self Relationship Coach & Wedding Officiant Twin Soul Connections ♥️ tszollicoffer@gmail.com

Letting the opinions of others control your life People know your name, not your story . They've heard what you've done, but not what you've been through. So take their opinions of you with a grain of salt. In the end, it's not what others think, it's what you think about yourself that counts.  Sometimes you have to do exactly what's best for you and your life, not what's best for everyone else. Theresa Zollicoffer Self Relationship Coach & Wedding Officiant Twin Soul Connections tszollicoffer@gmail.com

What would be the top 4 deal breakers a relationship? 1. Sex should be a MUST. I mean when you first meet someone & there's chemistry you automatically know of top that your gonna have sex with that person so why even consider a relationship with anyone where sex isn’t important. 2. Small children under 10 means there's a baby momma involve with possible drama. I wouldn't consider dating anyone else due to experience who has small children. Nope...kids under 10 means there is USUALLY an ex some place behind the scenes that you will eventually have to deal with and there is also possibility that you won't get much time with that person either. Been there, done that. That should definitely be an automatic NO. And speaking of exes, let's get to number 3... 3. If the ex is brought up in the first couple of conversations thats a definite red flag...especially when you start to notice how many times the ex is mentioned in each conversation. If it’s more then a f

When a MAN comes into your life knowing your past hurts, pain, shame, battle & the wall that is built due to the "ex" experience & brings all of that out of you by being gentle, cautious, caring & showing great love to a broken woman because he knows her worth, heart, love and what she is capable of that my friends is a GREAT MAN. Your ex may have brought out the worst in you but there is always someone out there that can bring out the BEST in you from being patient and just loving you back to the person that you once were before the "ex" experience. All men are not the same and if you feel that way go look in the mirror and remember like attracts like....or you just have a "type" ... not all men are created equal! 💯 Theresa Zollicoffer Relationship Coach & Wedding Officiant Twin Soul Connections ♥️ tszollicoffer@gmail.com ❤️💲🌱🎉🍀🌟 I love what I do and I do it out of passion....if you also enjoy my work feel free to leave a s

Someone asked me if I truly know what love is & feels like... here's my answer: Yes, of course... There are three sides of love from my point of view it's love of self and it's love that I give and receive from others... specifically from my twin flame. Let me explain... You already conquered love when you have love for self, when you show yourself love thru action by taking care of your temple (body), mental & emotional health and when you have so much love within, you have enough to share your love with others... I also feel & receive so much love from my partner in life, my best friend, my husband. So do I know what receiving love truly is...YES I DO, by the way he greets me every morning as I wake, thru his soul when I look deep into his eyes which shows so much appreciation & with his actions that he blesses me with every single day. The day he told me "He was made to love me" burned deep within my soul that was the day I KNEW what receivi

There are days when you feel like giving up, or you feel as if there's no hope, no one cares or life isn't worth living...we are all human we have felt this way here and there, but for some it's an everyday feeling to the point where it affects your life, job, family and just everyday routine. It can be caused by stress, your environment, the people you surround yourself with who can be toxic or narcissistic, financial issues (debt), breakups/separation of any kind, children, work, school, or you may have hurt others to the point of no return & the list goes on and on which can lead to major depression plus thoughts of suicide 😢. When these feelings hit it's best to seek help...even when you feel you don't have family or friends to confide in there are multiple hotlines and counseling programs that offer assistance & resources to get your emotional state and life back on track.  Which I will provide at the end of this post 👇👇👇. Depression is a very ver

She doesn't speak much, but when she does she holds the most intelligent conversations. She is a thinker, an observer with her books, music & coffee as her release. There's something about her that's so magnetic that people of all life styles gravitates towards her curious to know what she is about. Is it the formation of her temple? The exotic look in her eyes? When you stare at her it's like her aura pierces right thru you as if she is making you feel her soul. She is the epitome of what beauty is. ..A priceless art unknown! Theresa Cattouse  Relationship Coach & Wedding Officiant Twin Soul Connections ♥️

There is joy, happiness and love in your future. Whatever your abuser told you, whatever society tells you, whatever your own MIND tells you…the truth is that you deserve and will end up with a good life. Even on the days you slip and fall. Even the times you struggle. Your life won’t always be easy. Trauma’s damaging and that’s just a fact. But you’ll pull through and things will get better and better. Theresa Zollicoffer Relationship Coach & Wedding Officiant Twin Soul Connections I love what I do and I do it out of passion...if you also enjoy my writing and work please don't hesitate today leave a small donation via PayPal

People are brought together to learn life's lessons. Relationships whether good/bad are mirror images of ourselves. So when things go sour just sit back & think about why it happened? What could've been done better? Would you have done the same thing? What part did you play? Did you follow your intuitions? Did you give the benefit of doubt?  (don't play the victim), turn the tables & put yourself in their shoes... understand the lesson that may have been involved with it and don't repeat it or else you may be put in the same situation (different scenarios) until you realize the lesson at hand. Life's lessons may be painful, happy, frustrating & overwhelming but it's something that we have to go through in order to have that new perspective of YOUR life. So try the Mirror exercise & see the blessing in every relationship lesson...then you can live, love, get thru it thrn screw it!  Theresa Cattouse  Relationship Coach and Wedding Of

Have you ever been completely obsessed with someone the second you meet them? You say to yourself...“I know I’m going to marry this person, they’re exactly what I want, they have everything I never even knew I wanted and more, I’ve never been more sure of a single thing in my life, and not only would I be so happy seeing this persons face every day for the rest of my life but I wouldn’t be able to live if I couldn’t.” What do you know about THAT kind of love? That instant, certain love. ... That soulmate kind of love... That TWIN FLAME kind of love... That connection you can't deny even if you tried kind of love. For some does this kind of love exists- the romantic, hopeful, optimists- or does it really exists for everyone who open their hearts and minds to this attracting energy? I know it exists due to experience... It starts from within and that energy aura will attract the love energy that you put out. Theresa Cattouse Relationship Coach Twin Soul Connections I love

This is love to it's fullest letter from wife to husband and his and to wife. This is My husband and I expressing our love we have for one another. No other man has loved me and just LOVE me the way that he shows by his actions and words. Enjoy!!! Wife To Husband: To My King, Never in a day Never in a day would I ever put anyone before you (besides my babies) because you are my KING and I hold that title with so much respect and honor...KING I will always put you on a pedestal. Never in a day would I ever disrespect you. The love I have for you is too strong to ever disregard you in that manner. Never in a day would I not tell you how much I love and adore you. Thank you KING for loving me the way that you do. Never in a day would I let any woman deter me from my worth and my man. You are the best KING. I know I have not just a good dude, but a GREAT man. A man who knows what he wants out of life and isn't afraid to take the initiative to go get it...I LOVE that about yo

Life is like a mirror. .. How you show up as a vibrational being, reflects back to you. If you’re in a situation where you  feel mistreated or judged, take a moment and go within. Ask yourself what thoughts, emotions or long forgotten wounds match this experience. “What vibration am I holding within myself to attract this reflection?” If you’re angry and upset within, others will feel and respond to that. If you’re peaceful and calm it brings a difference in reflection. Now... holding anger, fear or pain can bring reflections of compassion and support. Holding peace and serenity can stir up anger or fear. It is still a reflection. If Life mirrors You... You have the power to change the reflection! Theresa Zollicoffer Relationship Coach and Wedding Officiant Twin Soul Connections tszollicoffer@gmail.com I love what I do and I do it out of passion...if you also enjoy my work please feel free to leave a small donation via cash app👈 👉 Paypal 👈

This is an email I got permission to share from a client (below) that is going through the rough side of life. We all lose hope from time to time where it seems like there isn't no helping hand. This can cause so much mental strife and inner pain. Just having someone to talk to can make a huge difference in someones life. If you know someone who has given up hope and lost faith in life, reach out and give a listening ear.  I’ve been feeling as if I’ve been going backwards, slacking in life…I know life has its up’s and downs , but it seems as if I’ve been more down then up with what life is throwing at me. I don’t know what’s what anymore. I’ve been going with the flow of things, but that just isn’t enough, something just doesn’t feel right! There’s something missing, I feel so unbalanced and I’m constantly looking for the piece of that missing puzzle and it seems like every time I think the piece fits it all ends up back the same with me trying to find the correct spot to complete

Procrastination is more than the thief of time. It is the thief of opportunity. It is the thief of relationships. It is the thief of dreams. If you want your dreams to become reality, you need to start investing in your future. Push your limits. Raise your expectations. Change your mindset. Stop procrastinating, and start fighting for your future. Theresa Zollicoffer Wedding officiant & Relationship Coach Twin Soul Connections I love what I do and I do it out of passion...if you also enjoy my work please feel free to make a small donation via 👉 cash app 👈 👉 Paypal 👈 Venmo @ karmicstar

Loneliness is a cruel tormentor. It will make you go running to people who broke you before and will make you believe that the same won’t happen again. It will push you into the arms of someone who doesn’t deserve to hold you. It will make you think that you deserve someone who loves themselves more than you. It will make you feel like you deserve the inevitable pain that will come from chasing people who will never appreciate you and only uses you for their beneficial reasons. It will make you blame yourself when others treat you like shit and convince you to forgive the unforgivable. It will make you chase people who does not value your worth...people who are not on your level enough to deserve your love or know how treasured it truly is.  Loneliness will make you realize how often you have broken your own heart. Theresa Cattouse  Relationship Coach & Wedding Officiant Twin Soul Connections I enjoy what I do and I do it out of passion....if

For anyone who has enjoyed my posts and thoughts these past few years, it has been a wonderful personal pleasure interacting in this  way to speak for the voiceless, help the lost and reach out to the community. Regardless of how things works itself out, I will always provide informative and introspective writing to the best of my ability for as long as I have breath in my lungs. My overall objective is to give couples, women, men (young & old) including at risks teens the truth, needed advice and guidance in order to sustain personable relationships with themselves & others by spreading love and offering coaching services sometimes for free (ALWAYS free for teens)  depending on the persons' financial situation. I am also a wedding officiant and It brings me so much joy bringing couples together in order to start a new chapter in their lives. I do not make money off of my work .. When it comes to my writing and blog I work hard to write consistently, to o

When was the last time you were alone? With nothing but the distinct thumping of your heart, the ragged sound of your own breaths? When was the last time you realised even silence has a sound? Society has romanticised the concept of being with someone to a stifling degree. It’s always made to be shown like you constantly need someone with you. Be it a lover, a friend, a parent, a sibling, an acquaintance - but you just have to have someone with you constantly. Why? Society forgets, that being alone isn’t the same thing as being lonely. And it doesn’t stop there. You need to be able to hold a conversation well. You need to be abreast with current issues to sound intellectual. General knowledge ceases to be a thing of curiosity or keenness to learn; it becomes a standard for judging someone’s IQ. You need to be fun, interesting, goofy, witty, sarcastic, humorous; when did human interaction cease being natural and start resembling a job profile? Why do you have to know every current pop

Here's another note from my love that he leaves for me just about every morning letting me know how much he loves me before he starts his day...this man never cease to amaze me...and this is what true LOVE feels like...I hope you enjoy it as much as I do.... Star! On April 22, 1978 a star was born. Who knew that God was up there still working, creating such a woman for me. She is such a beautiful creature; a work of art that can never be duplicated because her beauty and her personality makes her a perfect woman unmatched. She is a true sensation; phenomenal in all her ways. I want her because I strongly desire her. But when it comes to being in love, "wants" easily transcend themselves into "needs". So do I need her? Yes I do because I feel that her every breath is essential to my every being. There is no me without her! She feels the same way because we penetrate each other in the same like. That's what you call everlasting  true love . Once you got it, yo

This this blog entry is from  a client of mine who wanted to share her story and also in a way apologize for what she has done especially after karma hits her... always remember what goes around comes around this is a letter from a side chick.... "The other woman" I am a human being- I am flawed ; I make mistakes, in fact I have made a ton of bad decisions. I rush into things, I force things. I judge things, I judge situations, and I judge people. I hate things that are not supposed to be hated, I love and like things that are not supposed to be. I left people who were not supposed to be left behind, and I loved people who were not to supposed to be loved and kept. WARNING : This post is about being the other woman. This should really be kept in private. Because this is not something that people will look up to, especially to young girls who can read this (assuming. murag naa poy muagwantag basa ani.) But this is a concrete example that being the other woman is only conve

The beautiful thing about loving a guarded man is the most precious and sacred job a woman can have...and the reason why I say "job" is because loving a man who has a shield of protection over his heart and he let's a woman in is a job that a woman should not take lightly. She would always be on time to take care of his every need, when he falls down she is there to lift him right back up which makes her dependable and reliable... she takes care of home first before hanging out with the girls so there wouldn't be any misunderstandings, tension or arguments which makes her passionate, focused and thorough... She would be his best friend and would enjoy watching the football games, going to  basketball games, even playing 1 on 1 with her love from time to time, pillow talk, being his competitor while beating his ass in a game of chess and encouraging him to hang out with his home boys because she has full trust that he wouldn't do anything to jeopardize his relati

Loving note from my husband...This man puts a smile on my face every single day since we've first  spoken in 2009, the year we've married 2012 till now in the present 2019...NO MAN (besides my father) has ever showed me love especially through his actions the way that my husband loves me...Every woman should feel and experience the kind of love that is unconditional with no boundaries and much respect 💯! I hope you all enjoy this letter from my husband to me his STAR (that's what he calls me)👇👇👇!!! There comes a time in a person's life when the decision is made to walk away from all the drama, chaos and the people who creates it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh, forget the bad, motivates you to be a great person, who lends a helping hand when needed with no ulterior motives and focus on the good. So, love the people who treat you right...think good thoughts for the ones who don't and wish them the best. Life is too short to be anything b

This is what LOVE👩‍❤️‍👩👨‍❤️‍👨💑 is supposed to be & feel like..every man & woman's love is not supposed to hurt, cause pain nor bring you down in anyway, shape or form... it motivates you & brings you up...that person is supposed to make you a better version of yourself💪💪💪this is what TRUE love is!❤️💓💕💖💗💝 👇👇👇 He Motivates me to be a better version of myself. He's always there to lift me up when I fall or feeling down. He is a mirror image of what my love is and can be. NO man has ever showed me love the way he has done through his actions... and when I cry it's not because he has hurt me or cause me any inner pain, it's because his love for me is so strong 💪 💪💪 that no other man or woman can penetrate through the shield that his love has surrounded us in. When I cry it's tears of joy 💝💗💖💕💓❤️. Theresa Zollicoffer Relationship Coach & Wedding officiant TWIN SOUL CONNECTIONS I love what I do and I do it out of passion...If

Women have strengths that amaze men. They bear hardships and they carry burdens, but they hold happiness, love and joy. They smile when they want to scream. They sing when they want to cry. They cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous. They fight for what they believe in. They stand up to injustice. They don't take "no" for an answer when they believe there is a better solution. They go without so their family can have. They go to the doctor with a frightened friend. They love unconditionally. They cry when their children excel and cheer when their friends get awards. They are happy when they hear about a birth or a wedding. Their hearts break when a friend dies. They grieve at the loss of a family member, yet they are strong when they think  there is no strength left. They know that a hug and a kiss can heal a broken heart. Women  come in all shapes, sizes and colors. They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you to show how mu

Ladies you want a good man who has his head on straight, is intelligent, educated, respectful, reliable yet strong & is not thinking with the smaller head? Begin by being a good woman, a woman of value, have a good head on your shoulders, educated & one who uses more than her “Ass”-ets to attract & get a man. For both women & men...learn how to choose, who to choose & know why you are  choosing a certain person. Oh, & get out the drama & gossip zone. Stop saying that there are no "good men" out here...you are not a victim, there is a part you play when you keep getting with the same type of men knowing deep down that that man isn't good for you .. Stop settling, listen to your Intuition and do not ignore the red flags. Get it together girl...there are some wonderful men out in this world..trust me...  Theresa Cattouse Zollicoffer Marriage Officiant /Self Relationship Coach Twin Soul Connections I love what I do and I do it out of passio

If she is special to you, her love won't come easy. Sometimes when a good man is pursuing a good woman, he may find himself faced with certain challenges. Sometimes he may have to hop over a few extra hurdles that she may have neglected to put the last few men through. Sometimes he may have to give her room to breathe, before he can be her breath of fresh air. Sometimes patience is the best thing a man can give a woman who is learning how to trust again. Sometimes when a woman gets hurt, she loses faith in not only her ability to pick a decent man but her ability to trust the next one as well. Sometimes it will take going the extra mile just to see her smile. Sometimes it may take a while for a man to change a scarred woman's perception of men into a more positive light. However, if you can learn to be a little bit more patient with a good one considering all that she has been through, when you finally do receive her love, it will be one of the greatest treasures that y

Cars have steering wheels, seats, tires, brakes, windows and rear-view mirrors for a reason.  When you apply the actual build of a car to life, the steering wheel represent the fact that you are the only one who's in control of your destiny. Wherever you choose to go in life is entirely up to you.  The seats represent the people who you choose to take with you on your journey whether it's family, friends, etc. But its impossible for everybody to ride with you because its only a select few who have your best interest at heart while riding.  The tires represent the people who supported you the most...the ones who want to see you move forward to your destiny. But as you know, tires do catch flats, and you have to change them out. The same with the people who may have supported you but no longer does. You must change them out and move forward because life goes on.  The brakes now! The brakes are the most important part of the car because they let you know that as you ride

The best advice I could give to someone starting on their twin flame journey (or any spiritual journey, really) is to clear your mind. Reading other people’s experiences of the ascension, or watching pick a card readings, can be helpful occasionally but more often that not it just adds more confusion. You have all the answers inside of yourself.  Those lists you find online of “the 12 stages of twin flames” or whatever aren’t always applicable. Everyone’s journey is entirely their own and entirely different. It’s whatever your souls agreed to before reincarnation and there is no right or wrong way to go about healing. There aren’t a set of steps that you need to follow. This journey is not one-size fits all.  Go inside yourself, listen to your heart, and take the actions steps that you are guided towards even if they seem like the opposite of what you’re “supposed” to be doing based on what you’ve read.  It’s much easier to receive outside guidance in this space of discernme

If you have to argue with your significant other everyday over the same situation or concerns and you have to constantly express to them about how you feel in regards to your flirtatious ways, it's time to let go✌🏾️😔. It doesn't matter how long you've been rocking with them or how deep in love "YOU THINK" you are💔...If a so call man or woman can't treat you how you should, need & want to be treated👸🏾, THEN LEAVE THAT PERSON 🍎 ALONE✌🏾!!!! Some people especially women put up with so much already due to societies outlook of a woman's  depreciation of her value and worth from broken relationships to giving birth to multiple babies whether it's by the same person or having different "baby daddies". Some good women and men loyalty and feelings run so deep😩. But you gotta speak your truth and move on 👋🏾. Stop getting walked all over🚶...some people never will grow up😪 mentally and you can't make nor force them😐! You CAN NOT c

One of the most reliable ways to ruin your enjoyment of life is to put too many conditions on that enjoyment. You can put so much time and energy into getting the conditions just right, that there's nothing left to enjoy. Instead of seeking and striving to enjoy life, just simply enjoy it. Enjoy the moment you're in, without placing so many judgments or conditions on it. Theresa Cattouse Relationship Coach/Wedding Officiant Twin Soul Connections Follow me on Twitter @karmicstar IG @ Twinsoulconnections PS. I love what I do and I do it out of passion. If you also enjoy my work please don't hesitate to offer a small donation via PayPal.me/twinsoulconnections or cashapp.me/$karmicstar