Love comes and love goes-b ut true love does exists. Once love consumes the heart it begins to break down all barriers that would hold you back and help you become free of the old releasing any worries of unimportant things that would block you from the love that is your birthright. I t takes two willing participants to cultivate such a beautiful experience!

Signs that you have found your Twin Flame Signs that you have found your twin flame or soulmate can be many and varied. Some of you may be able to identify with a few of the signs listed below while others may be experiencing all of them. However, the most important thing to remember is that it is only a soul's life experiences and choices that he/she makes along the way that will determine whether or not you are in a twin flame or soulmate relationship. In the end, it is the universe that will show you exactly what you are ready for. Listed below, are signs that I have experienced in my own relationship. I've documented them all because I have been paying attention to each and everyone of these important experiences that the universe has shown me. While I realize that this is a work in progress, I may have also left out some important signs that you - the visitor may have experienced, that I may have missed. In reading some of the signs below, if you have any suggesti

When I'm at my lowest I think of you! When I can't stop the tears from flowing I think of you! When life' obstacles keeps throwing stones I think of you! When I feel as if the world is upon my shoulders I think of you! When loves' existence seems lost I think of you! You are the SUN that lights brightens my sky! You are the halo that makes me shine so bright! You are the positive energy that pushes through with such great force everyone that is around me feels your presence! You are my Twin Flame that forever burns with-in my heart and will always uplift my soul! Always and forever I Think Of You! By Theresa Cattouse

Have you ever thought to ask yourself  "who are you?" Not on the surface... I'm asking who are you really?... Let me explain... For years, I have defined myself by my accomplishments...I figured that I was doing pretty well...compared to some people, right? I had been taught that: Not everybody has a house...Not everybody has a car...Not everybody has food... We all understand that...and yes... we should absolutely be grateful for that... BUT is that all that life should be about, doing better than most? Absolutely NOT. We all know there's more to life than surviving... It's possible to be grateful, thankful, and still push for more... More time for yourself... More time for your family... More time to live the life of your dreams...  Don't you deserve that?... Well, don't you?... We all want that piece of the pie. We all want to be able to be financially stable and wake up every morning without daily worries an

Deep down inside we all know that something isn't right... Let me explain... It was probably somewhere around 2004 when I first realized something wasn't right..That was shortly after the time that I got my first "good job" out of college...I found myself sitting in a cubicle surrounded by strangers who seemingly seemed to be operating on auto-pilot, I called them corporate zombies... They would come to work and complain about everything from the weather to politics. Their only mental escape would be lunch which only lasts an hour or less. I would hear constant talk about the need for a raise and all eyes would be on the clock until it was time to go home Another 10-years would go by and I would notice that I was starting to do the same things, the same routine every day...(not cool)... Deep down, inside...I knew that something wasn't right... For most of us, this started at a young age...Very early on, we are taught to color inside of  the lines, get go

For anyone who has enjoyed my posts and thoughts these past few years, it has been a wonderful personal pleasure interacting in this capacity through the cathartic experience of self-expression while attempting in my own small way to speak for the voiceless, help the lost and reach out to the community. Regardless of how things works itself out, I will always provide informative and introspective writing to the best of my ability for as long as I have breath in my lungs. My overall objective is to give couples, women including teens the truth and needed advice in order to sustain personable relationships by spreading love and offering relationship coaching services sometimes for free depending on the persons' financial situation. I am also a wedding officiant and It brings me so much joy bringing couples together in order to start a new chapter in their lives. I do not make money off of my blog; I work hard to write consistently, to offer my platform to guests, & to person

A friend of mine wanted to share an experience and love from her significant other who passed away from cancer just last year in May 2016. They were very close and very much in and of love...After the death of my friends fiancé she was going through her partners belongings in the hopes of donating most of the items that were left behind, until she came across a small red box wrapped up in silk red ribbon that was lightly covered with clothing in the back of a drawer that they both shared. She open the box to find a piece of paper that was folded together and attached to the paper was a small rose which was one of her favorite flowers. She put the rose to the side and carefully unfolded the paper so that she would not rip it. She looked over the note and this is what it read: My Dearest, Being all that you are, continue to shine bright in my smile even on cloudy days because you are my living testament. The radiation of your love is that strong and powerful, for which, all of

From the moment our eyes met, I felt as though our souls have known each other for eternity. As I've gotten to know you more and more each day, I discovered that we share the same beliefs, values and dreams. I know what you are thinking just by facial illustrations where are minds connect and words are not spoken. Our friends and family admires the formidable connection we have which causes love and light to illuminate from our entire being as it merges us into becoming one, on this day as husband and wife. Our common goals allow us to work harmoniously together, and our purpose is being fulfilled right now as I speak. As a new chapter of our story is written each day as time passes us by I will grow even more passionately in love with you. People will enjoy reading our book of enchantment in the hopes of finding the secret that is love....because we emanate and attract the tranquility and bliss from the universe. I believed in soul mates before we met, but nothing has prepa

My sweetest love! Before you came into my life, nothing but emptiness filled my being. I had no hope in the present nor the future because my faith in life was distorted. But then you came along and breathed new life into my heart...For that I remain a humbled, honored, thankful man who is forever proud to have you as such a vital part of my life. The Universe has brought us together and therefore we are blessed...We feed off each others strengths when lifes trails and tribulations seem so overwhelming and you are my " hope " which is the ultimate desire of all human kind. No matter how terrible the tragedies of life can be, as long as we can catch a glimmer of hope, we can survive lifes worst encounters.  For this is our destiny!!! Theresa Cattouse Wedding Officiant/Relationship Coach Twin Soul Connections I love what I do and I do it out of passion by keeping this blog running strong. If you like my work please feel free to leave a small DONATION

There are many important reasons why many twin souls go through a time of physical separation from each other. This is something that is driven primarily by the soul and not necessarily the individual. Even though it may appear that one or perhaps both twin souls are denying/pushing away/running from the connection, really it is because the SOUL is not ready. The soul dictates when reunion will occur, therefore until the soul has decided it's time, then no amount of trying to force yourselves to be together before that time will work. Perhaps a major block of whether the soul is ready to unite or not is the emphasis you are putting on the twin soul connection and reunion. Perhaps looking at it as primarily about coming together in a traditional romantic way is putting limitations on this and that is why you are not ready to unite. But this physical separation occurs primarily to "wake us up". All preconceptions about the connection will need to be looked at and if the

Words can't ever begin to describe the emotions I feel when it comes to you...You are my everything, my friend, my mentor in love, my confidant and most importantly, the woman who measures up to all I ever dreamed of you to be my wife !! Thank you so much for all that you are and for all that I know you will be in the future. Of Course, everything wont always be peaches and cream between us, but what's life and love with out the presence of trail and error. With the gift of understanding and some patience adding to that, we can weather any storm and overcome all adversity; so please my sweet love, stay strong, be brave and know that the strength of a real mans love can be reflected in the actions of his woman. And now we are one from this day forward, for which I am grateful for. Theresa Cattouse Wedding Officiant/Relationship Coach Twin Soul Connections I love what I do by sharing the love that is within me by keeping this blog going strong. If you like what you have

To know someone is to understand them, to fall in love with them is to know and understand yourself, and to know and understand yourself is to know you're worth and all that you stand for. We as women have the power to manifest and attract anything we want by simply controlling our thoughts because our thoughts are the seeds that produce the fruit of our actions. Being women of power, intelligence, love and the Queens of the universe we hold the key to every situation and contain within ourselves that transformation by which we can make of ourselves what we will; but as long as we allow foolishness and ignorant people to cause us to belittle and think lesser then who we are, we will continue to extract bullshit; living a life of pain and hardships due to settling for less than what we deserve. Most women label themselves  as "queen bitch" and everything else outside of the true meaning of what a Queen or a "grown woman" represents. That is why the ess

It just baffles me when you find yourself in a better place in  life, when you have overcome so much, when you finally realize that you need to turn things around, When you begin to follow the path that leads you to bigger and better things, there seems to always be someone lurking in the shadows trying to remind you of who you once were. Some of us have experienced many up and downs and some of us have made many mistakes; mistakes that we may be ashamed of to this very day. But guess what, you are not your past. We all have flaws...perfection does not exist. We all have to fall down and sometimes be broken in order to be that strong man or woman we are destined to be. It’s true that some people’s life journeys are more difficult than others and there are some that just breeze through life with a silver spoon in their mouth; but you have to understand that every single person that walks on this earth life paths are different from the other...not one is the same whether your ric

If a man or woman really wants you, nothing can keep them away. If they do not want you, nothing can make them stay no matter how hard you try...so please stop making excuses for this man or woman and their behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be but only for a moment. Some relationships end because of mistreatment, communication issues and/or a lack of respect. Do you believe that is what you deserve? Once you finally decide to leave, you want to continue to remain friends...Do you think that is a good idea to remain friends with someone who didn't treat you right in the first place...well, guess what,.. a friend wouldn't mistreat a friend! (I'm just saying). Don't settle for less you are stronger then that and KINGS/QUEENS do not accept anything less then they deserve..Why?..Because they do not have time for the BULLSHIT!. If your intuition is telling

So you’ve found love? You’ve finally found that one person who is willing to walk that journey with you. You’ve decided to widen your options to someone who is currently incarcerated. You’ve listed all of the pros and cons and have ultimately decided to go with the flow of things and give this relationship a chance that society would normally frown upon. There are men and women locked up that want to walk the walk with you, people ready to commit and contribute to your life. But there are some who has ulterior motives, temporary situations with exclusive benefits for self. When things do not go according to the beautiful plans that were presented to one another that is when you realize that you have made a big mistake. You have become one of the many expected statistics of a failed prison marriage/relationship. Join me as we go through this journey with other strong women and men who have shared their stories of love, hurt, regret and the decision to finally let go of something that wa

"God is Love", but how do we define it? The American Heritage Dictionary defines love as "an intense affection for another person based on familial or personal ties". Often this "intense affection" stems from a sexual attraction for that other person. We love other people, or we say we love other people, when we are attracted to them and when they make us feel good. Notice that a key phrase in the dictionary definition of love is the phrase "based on". This phrase implies that we love conditionally; in other words, we love someone because they fulfill a condition that we require before we can love them. How many times have you heard or said, "I love you because you are cute;" or "I love you because you take good care of me;" or "I love you because you are fun to be with"? Our love is not only conditional, it is also mercurial. We love based on feelings and emotions that can change from one moment to the next.

The term soul mate means many different things. These are souls that you have experienced with in past, parallel or future lifetimes. They can also be aspects of your soul experiencing at this time in another body. We are all multidimensional beings, your soul having experiences, in many realities, at the same time. As we all evolve from the same source of consciousness creation, we could say that we are all soul mates in a manner of speaking. Soul mate is sometimes used to designate someone with whom one has a feeling of deep and natural affinity, friendship, love, intimacy, sexuality, and/or compatibility. Soul mates can have various types of relationships, which do not always include romantic love. They can be close friends, co-workers, a teacher, anyone who influences your life one way or another. They play the emotional, spiritual, physical, and mental, games of third dimension with you. They can affect relationships in a positive or negative way depending on the emotional issu

This submission is from a man to his girl and they are currently in a long distance relationship..these are his words to her. Pure, intense, caring and honest, in confidence concerning forever. We'll stand the test of time, age like fine wine. We are defined by dedication, truthfulness, patience, understanding and unconditional love...there's nothing in life I could want more! Can I get a refill?...because I can't get enough of you. I always want more...More of the look in your eyes when you're happy; more of your laughter; more of your smile. Going through all this to meet you has somehow made this worth my while. Though it's bittersweet, envisioning endeavors of us together is me at my happiest. Every thought when it comes to you makes me feel blessed; allowing me to be a dreamer; causing me to be a believer. A friendship turned fantasy; a fantasy turned reality...I've become more mindful of whats mutual. Sometimes your physical attributes fail to co

My other half, Never for a moment in my wildest dreams would I have thought that I ever would Encounter a love so open and deep.  Never would I Have thought that this love would open up so many many possibilities of happiness and oneness…I've always prayed for a love like this as a mere young woman; Who knew that the universe heard my cry from within and would send a love so great in the form of  a man that I truly adore! When we are apart, the very thought of you makes my body react in ways that no other has ever accomplished in the physical sense. Your touch alone overwhelms my inner being causing me to break down the walls and release pure ecstasy. Now and forever will I continue to drink from your cup of affection which keeps me intoxicated with unadulterated bliss! No one, not one person can break this divine union of destiny! Loving you always and forever, your wife, star and best friend. Theresa Cattouse  Wedding Officiant/Relationship Coach Twin Soul C

There's only a chosen few who gets to experience such a beautiful thing called "True Love" while the majority sits around wishing they had it. But everyone seem to have their own personal description of what exactly true love is, feels and looks like; when in reality a person can't describe it unless he or she has been struck by it. It comes by every once in a while taking hold of two strangers who later becomes well documented as friends, partners, and companions for life.  We didn't choose it for ourselves, it chose us because as humans of emotions, we can't help who we happen to fall in love with! So as a woman who has been struck by a beautiful thing, I don't have to pretend to know what it is like to be in love because I've been in love a couple of times, but I do know that true love is enduring...It's knowing the truth about someone and still wanting to be with them above all others no matter what their flaws maybe. True love is capti

You are the makeup that covers me up with love when I’m in need of it. You are the beauty and the strength that gravitates around me and thru me. You are in every sense of my being and there isn’t a second that I’m not thinking about you and needing you near. I love when I call out to you from with-in, you always answer by either a phone call or a letter…it’s like you know when I’m feeling you, needing you, calling upon you and you never fail to answer. We are so spiritually connected that only GOD can break apart this infinite union. You are my twin soul, my Siamese twin connected to my heart of one accord, so if you shall ever leave or separate from me my heart would stop beating, my life would come to a complete end, cause with-out your love I would cease to exist. You are my husband, my king and I am your queen who sits at your throne with my head held high in GOD’s grace and love; Inhaling every bit of your royal essence, mesmerized by the power that you illuminate over

People often say, 'You only live once,' as an excuse for reckless choices. But every action, especially intimacy, leaves a mark on our energy and soul. Our bodies and auras—the energy fields surrounding us—interact with others constantly, shaping who we are.  Sexual connections are especially powerful, creating bonds that intertwine our DNA, karma, and spiritual essence, sometimes for lifetimes. True harmony comes from merging with someone who matches your energy—a Twin Soul. This union elevates you, unlocking creativity, love, and growth. On the flip side, casual or mismatched connections can drain your energy, muddy your aura, and disrupt your path. Think of your body and spirit as a sacred vessel. Guard your energy. Choose connections that rejuvenate, not deplete. Even if past choices weren’t ideal, it’s never too late to cleanse, forgive, and realign. Your soul deserves love and purity, and your Twin Soul awaits when you’re ready to embrace that sacred bond.&quo

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God is referred to many times as the Master Potter...the molder and shaper of our lives. Few of us have trouble with the idea of GOD shaping and remolding us as individuals, but how often do we think of GOD remolding us as a couple? After all, if man and wife are "one flesh," wouldn't it stand to reason that God shapes marriage relationships too? Perhaps this is what God is doing in your life, but you haven't realized it. The changes that occur in a process like this can make you very uncomfortable, therefore, sleep may have eluded you as you've searched for answers to your pain. Great emotional upheavals can take place when children are born or leave home, when finances are altered or jobs lost. A husband can become upset when his wife starts a career, and a wife can be...beside herself during her husband's "mid-life crisis." But, as painful as these things are, they're all part of God shaping and molding us...not only as individuals, but as

My Beautiful Queen, Time Can not measure the love I have for you in my heart! If the sun was to cease to exist, and there wasn't gravity in the universe to uphold the stars above, I would still be loving you with all my might, because our love is beyond heaven....It's universal! A divine nature that is far more greater than nature itself so hold on to it because it's a divine gift from GOD; and any gift from GOD is meant to be cherished and told as a testimony of his grace and glory.  I love you, I love you, I love you...I could never get enough of loving me some you... Remember, there isn't a star out there that would out shine you because to me your the brightest... Keep illuminating my soul with all the love you have as my partner, companion, wife and best friend!!! Theresa Cattouse Wedding Officiant Twin Soul Connections DONATIONS

My love, my life, my best friend, my wife! You and I are connected in a way that goes beyond romance, beyond friendship and beyond what we ever had before. It has defied time, distance and changes in our selves and in our lives. It has defied every explanation except one~purely and simply, we are Soul Mates. I can't explain it. It's in a way my spirit lifts whenever we talk, how the sound of your voice brings me home in a way I can't explain. Its in a way we laugh at exactly the same things, and how just a look can mean so much. When I'm with you, its like a tiny part of the universe shifts into the place its suppose to be and all is right with the world. These things, and so many others have made me understand that this is a once in a lifetime connection that will last forever only between me and you.....An amazing gift of true love for the rest of OUR lives....     ...That's how long I'll love you! Theresa Cattouse Wedding Officiant & Relati

This was letter submitted to me by a man who is currently in a long distance relationship with what he describes as the "woman of his dreams"...unfortunately this couple is going through a rough patch and he asked me to publicly send this letter to his girlfriend as an apology....So Amanda (and I will also send this to her email) This is from Ron to you!!! No one in this entire world could ever take your place in my life because you are the one who I live for and would die for if need be. With out you, there is no me, and I would surely die if something was ever to happen to you. So I apologize if I offended you when I expressed my worries and concerns in a bold, but insecure way. I love you! You know this....it kills me to be unable to express it the way that I want. So I curl myself up in my bed overnight; missing you; thinking about you; and hoping that when I close my eyes GOD would bless me again with the comfort of your presence...even if it's only a dream for a