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If Your Man Or Woman Really Wants You!!!

If a man or woman really wants you, nothing can keep them away. If they do not want you, nothing can make them stay no matter how hard you try...so please stop making excuses for this man or woman and their behavior.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be but only for a moment. Some relationships end because of mistreatment, communication issues and/or a lack of respect. Do you believe that is what you deserve?

Once you finally decide to leave, you want to continue to remain friends...Do you think that is a good idea to remain friends with someone who didn't treat you right in the first place...well, guess what,..
a friend wouldn't mistreat a friend! (I'm just saying).

Don't settle for less you are stronger then that and KINGS/QUEENS do not accept anything less then they deserve..Why?..Because they do not have time for the BULLSHIT!.

If your intuition is telling you that the person your with is stringing you along, then 9 times out of 10 that's what it is. Don't stay because you "think" it will get better or that person will change...you have to understand that under no circumstances can you change a person mentally, physically or emotionally; they have to be willing and ready to make that change on their own and not because you want them too. Remember, change comes from with-in! You'll end up mad at yourself  for staying when things are not better and gradually getting worse. The only person you can control in a relationship is YOU. So avoid the obvious and acknowledge the "red flags"...always go with your gut feeling.

It's best to have your own set of friends separate from theirs and  maintain boundaries on how your significant other treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. A lot of people will not agree with what I'm about to say, but I believe that if you are just starting and not considering marriage anytime soon DON'T TELL YOUR PARTNER EVERYTHING..because they can possibly use it against you later.

Don't EVER make them feel more important than youself and don't let them make you feel any less. You have to love yourself more because there is no one that can take care of you and love you better but you.They are human just as you are, nothing more nothing less. Never let another person define who you are.as a man or woman.

A man/woman will only treat you the way you ALLOW them to treat you.You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromising is a two-way street. If and when you decide to leave you will need time to heal in-between relationships...there is nothing cute about past baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...supplementary. Dating is fun...even if they do not turn out to be Mr or Ms. Right. When you find that perfect match and you two are getting serious take these steps to make sure that this new relationship goes as smooth as possible.

1. Make your significant other miss you sometimes...when your partner always know where you are, and you're always readily available to them--they can take that
for granted.

2. Don't fully commit to someone who doesn't give you everything that you need mind, body and soul.

3. Keep your partner in your radar, but allow space and independence; don't suffocate them and do not be insecure at the same time..it may sound difficult, but that is a good way to build trust with your partner and yourself.

4. Last but not least get to know the people  in their circle and vice-versa it will show that you are taking the initiative to get to know them better by the people that they associate themselves with whether it's family or friends.

Share this with other others..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK their choices, and another PREPARE for what is to come.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

Theresa Cattouse
Wedding Officiant/Relationship Coach
Twin Soul Connections 

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