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Is Love Suppose To Hurt!

Is Love Suppose To Hurt? (Not like this)

We all have felt the hurt of love. But is love suppose to hurt? Yes and no.

YES . . . love  hurts when we don't have it, lose it, don't get enough of it, and miss it . . .

NO . . . love is NOT suppose to hurt us, at least someone who says they love us we expect them not to hurt us, not intentionally, not repeatedly, not without stopping or learning to change . . .

It's seems foolish to love someone who constantly hurts you  & continues to consistently cause you pain. It's even crazier to believe the lies that they're sorry when they make the same mistake again and again, and we can't be play the victim each and every time we get hurt by them because it's  our fault that we allowed them to depreciate our value and worth not once or twice but a few and possibly many times.

Sometimes the love we have for someone is so strong that it makes us blind to the fact that anything that they did or do to us does not happen at all. .but there are times when love isn't enough! You love them but you have to love yourself more...

Once you decide to let go be single for a while and enjoy your own company. Be in a relationship with yourself...there isn't anything wrong with taking yourself out on date...if you feel taking yourself out is to cliche then hang out with a few close friends for some fun..it makes a big difference.

There are people who desperately need to hear this message -- Please Pass It Along. 

Theresa Zollicoffer
Relationship Coach & Wedding Officiant


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