When you two first met the connection was undeniable...he/she wanted you and you wanted them. You were in awe of their smile, gentleness, mind and spirit; That person is now apart of your present and will be becoming your future..a new chapter in your book of life, they became your prince and you their princess (or vice versa) who was once asleep until their soul kissed yours and you were awaken by what is called true love! A fantasy turned into reality, a love story you thought would never end; The tale of two lovers who are now enemies...the last chapter in your book of life turned from non-fiction to fiction in a blink of an eye.
Does that sound familiar?
Why are we painted a picture of what love should and suppose to be growing up as kids into adults which causes expectations of that picture that is now in a frame, stuck on the wall not just for your eyes but for everyone else to see.
Love has many meanings and every person have their own meaning of what love is and should be without looking at the big picture of love in itself as a whole. We all were brought up with the perception that love consists of two people falling in love who eventually gets married, raise a family and live happily ever after...Well all of what was taught to us is total BULLSHIT! I say that because we were not taught or prepared that once we do find the "love of our lives" we would have to work to keep it going and being in a relationship is like going to school or work every day and unfortunately there are no "off days". If you do not maintain that love or live up to the expectations of love...it will be lost.
When in a relationship love should be shared, not demanded or given. Let me explain...When you decide to take the step of commitment you are taught to give love to the other person...not realizing that you don't have love to just give away, because when you give love away you are giving away pieces of yourself to that other person which can lead to control of the heart...but when you actually love someone and you know this is the person for you...instead of giving your love away you would "SHARE" your love that is already with-in you and YOUR world with that person and vice versa that is when you two become one!
Theresa C.
Wedding Officiant/Relationship Coach
Twin Soul Connections-Chicago
Does that sound familiar?
Why are we painted a picture of what love should and suppose to be growing up as kids into adults which causes expectations of that picture that is now in a frame, stuck on the wall not just for your eyes but for everyone else to see.
Love has many meanings and every person have their own meaning of what love is and should be without looking at the big picture of love in itself as a whole. We all were brought up with the perception that love consists of two people falling in love who eventually gets married, raise a family and live happily ever after...Well all of what was taught to us is total BULLSHIT! I say that because we were not taught or prepared that once we do find the "love of our lives" we would have to work to keep it going and being in a relationship is like going to school or work every day and unfortunately there are no "off days". If you do not maintain that love or live up to the expectations of love...it will be lost.
When in a relationship love should be shared, not demanded or given. Let me explain...When you decide to take the step of commitment you are taught to give love to the other person...not realizing that you don't have love to just give away, because when you give love away you are giving away pieces of yourself to that other person which can lead to control of the heart...but when you actually love someone and you know this is the person for you...instead of giving your love away you would "SHARE" your love that is already with-in you and YOUR world with that person and vice versa that is when you two become one!
Theresa C.
Wedding Officiant/Relationship Coach
Twin Soul Connections-Chicago
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