Have you ever thought to ask yourself  "who are you?" Not on the surface... I'm asking who are you really?... Let me explain... For years, I have defined myself by my accomplishments...I figured that I was doing pretty well...compared to some people, right? I had been taught that: Not everybody has a house...Not everybody has a car...Not everybody has food... We all understand that...and yes... we should absolutely be grateful for that... BUT is that all that life should be about, doing better than most? Absolutely NOT. We all know there's more to life than surviving... It's possible to be grateful, thankful, and still push for more... More time for yourself... More time for your family... More time to live the life of your dreams...  Don't you deserve that?... Well, don't you?... We all want that piece of the pie. We all want to be able to be financially stable and wake up every morning without daily worries an

Deep down inside we all know that something isn't right... Let me explain... It was probably somewhere around 2004 when I first realized something wasn't right..That was shortly after the time that I got my first "good job" out of college...I found myself sitting in a cubicle surrounded by strangers who seemingly seemed to be operating on auto-pilot, I called them corporate zombies... They would come to work and complain about everything from the weather to politics. Their only mental escape would be lunch which only lasts an hour or less. I would hear constant talk about the need for a raise and all eyes would be on the clock until it was time to go home Another 10-years would go by and I would notice that I was starting to do the same things, the same routine every day...(not cool)... Deep down, inside...I knew that something wasn't right... For most of us, this started at a young age...Very early on, we are taught to color inside of  the lines, get go

For anyone who has enjoyed my posts and thoughts these past few years, it has been a wonderful personal pleasure interacting in this capacity through the cathartic experience of self-expression while attempting in my own small way to speak for the voiceless, help the lost and reach out to the community. Regardless of how things works itself out, I will always provide informative and introspective writing to the best of my ability for as long as I have breath in my lungs. My overall objective is to give couples, women including teens the truth and needed advice in order to sustain personable relationships by spreading love and offering relationship coaching services sometimes for free depending on the persons' financial situation. I am also a wedding officiant and It brings me so much joy bringing couples together in order to start a new chapter in their lives. I do not make money off of my blog; I work hard to write consistently, to offer my platform to guests, & to person

A friend of mine wanted to share an experience and love from her significant other who passed away from cancer just last year in May 2016. They were very close and very much in and of love...After the death of my friends fiancé she was going through her partners belongings in the hopes of donating most of the items that were left behind, until she came across a small red box wrapped up in silk red ribbon that was lightly covered with clothing in the back of a drawer that they both shared. She open the box to find a piece of paper that was folded together and attached to the paper was a small rose which was one of her favorite flowers. She put the rose to the side and carefully unfolded the paper so that she would not rip it. She looked over the note and this is what it read: My Dearest, Being all that you are, continue to shine bright in my smile even on cloudy days because you are my living testament. The radiation of your love is that strong and powerful, for which, all of

From the moment our eyes met, I felt as though our souls have known each other for eternity. As I've gotten to know you more and more each day, I discovered that we share the same beliefs, values and dreams. I know what you are thinking just by facial illustrations where are minds connect and words are not spoken. Our friends and family admires the formidable connection we have which causes love and light to illuminate from our entire being as it merges us into becoming one, on this day as husband and wife. Our common goals allow us to work harmoniously together, and our purpose is being fulfilled right now as I speak. As a new chapter of our story is written each day as time passes us by I will grow even more passionately in love with you. People will enjoy reading our book of enchantment in the hopes of finding the secret that is love....because we emanate and attract the tranquility and bliss from the universe. I believed in soul mates before we met, but nothing has prepa

My sweetest love! Before you came into my life, nothing but emptiness filled my being. I had no hope in the present nor the future because my faith in life was distorted. But then you came along and breathed new life into my heart...For that I remain a humbled, honored, thankful man who is forever proud to have you as such a vital part of my life. The Universe has brought us together and therefore we are blessed...We feed off each others strengths when lifes trails and tribulations seem so overwhelming and you are my " hope " which is the ultimate desire of all human kind. No matter how terrible the tragedies of life can be, as long as we can catch a glimmer of hope, we can survive lifes worst encounters.  For this is our destiny!!! Theresa Cattouse Wedding Officiant/Relationship Coach Twin Soul Connections I love what I do and I do it out of passion by keeping this blog running strong. If you like my work please feel free to leave a small DONATION

There are many important reasons why many twin souls go through a time of physical separation from each other. This is something that is driven primarily by the soul and not necessarily the individual. Even though it may appear that one or perhaps both twin souls are denying/pushing away/running from the connection, really it is because the SOUL is not ready. The soul dictates when reunion will occur, therefore until the soul has decided it's time, then no amount of trying to force yourselves to be together before that time will work. Perhaps a major block of whether the soul is ready to unite or not is the emphasis you are putting on the twin soul connection and reunion. Perhaps looking at it as primarily about coming together in a traditional romantic way is putting limitations on this and that is why you are not ready to unite. But this physical separation occurs primarily to "wake us up". All preconceptions about the connection will need to be looked at and if the

Words can't ever begin to describe the emotions I feel when it comes to you...You are my everything, my friend, my mentor in love, my confidant and most importantly, the woman who measures up to all I ever dreamed of you to be my wife !! Thank you so much for all that you are and for all that I know you will be in the future. Of Course, everything wont always be peaches and cream between us, but what's life and love with out the presence of trail and error. With the gift of understanding and some patience adding to that, we can weather any storm and overcome all adversity; so please my sweet love, stay strong, be brave and know that the strength of a real mans love can be reflected in the actions of his woman. And now we are one from this day forward, for which I am grateful for. Theresa Cattouse Wedding Officiant/Relationship Coach Twin Soul Connections I love what I do by sharing the love that is within me by keeping this blog going strong. If you like what you have

To know someone is to understand them, to fall in love with them is to know and understand yourself, and to know and understand yourself is to know you're worth and all that you stand for. We as women have the power to manifest and attract anything we want by simply controlling our thoughts because our thoughts are the seeds that produce the fruit of our actions. Being women of power, intelligence, love and the Queens of the universe we hold the key to every situation and contain within ourselves that transformation by which we can make of ourselves what we will; but as long as we allow foolishness and ignorant people to cause us to belittle and think lesser then who we are, we will continue to extract bullshit; living a life of pain and hardships due to settling for less than what we deserve. Most women label themselves  as "queen bitch" and everything else outside of the true meaning of what a Queen or a "grown woman" represents. That is why the ess