People are brought together to learn life's lessons. Relationships whether good/bad are mirror images of ourselves. So when things go sour just sit back & think about why it happened? What could've been done better? Would you have done the same thing? What part did you play? Did you follow your intuitions? Did you give the benefit of doubt?  (don't play the victim), turn the tables & put yourself in their shoes... understand the lesson that may have been involved with it and don't repeat it or else you may be put in the same situation (different scenarios) until you realize the lesson at hand. Life's lessons may be painful, happy, frustrating & overwhelming but it's something that we have to go through in order to have that new perspective of YOUR life. So try the Mirror exercise & see the blessing in every relationship lesson...then you can live, love, get thru it thrn screw it!  Theresa Cattouse  Relationship Coach and Wedding Of