I use to sit back and think to myself about how much I use to make the most dumbest ass decisions which ended up screwing up everything good I had built and accomplish in my life. I felt like there was nothing I could do to make
things normal again. It got so bad I thought things would not be the same and it would take a miracle to get back to where I once were.
I was almost right.
BUT man, was I wrong.
When you feel like you have screwed up everything important in your life, you realize you have nothing to lose.
When you realize you have nothing to lose, you feel an almost overwhelming sense of freedom. That means you can do anything you like.
Because you really have nothing to lose.
That's exactly what happened to me...I realized I didn't have anything to lose. So I might as well be a little selfish and focus all my time and energy on becoming a better version of myself and of course loving me more-putting myself first, which meant
NO MORE excuses,
NO MORE putting other's needs before my own,
NO MORE accepting less then what I deserve
NO matter what/who it is, last but not least being HONEST with myself & others!
A couple of months of that attitude, and I realized that even though I lost the person I loved and my job I didn't really lose everything. In fact, it was one of the best things that ever happened to me. My ex and I even started communicating after 3 months of our breakup, plus I AM getting back on track with my career and goals.
If you feel like you've lost an important part of your life or it seems as if life is throwing you so many curve balls, I want you to think of it as a hidden blessing.
When you don't have anything to lose, you have everything to gain.
I want you to use this opportunity and start focusing on becoming a better version of yourself...life is too short to not have fun, live life and laugh on a regular basis while spending time with the one you love.
Theresa Cattouse
Twin Soul Connections
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