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When Life Throws You Lemons, Make Some Damn Good Lemonade!





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When we were kids we didn't really have any cares or worries in the world...the only thing we worried about was breakfast, lunch and dinner and don't forget snack time. As teens our worries, wants and curiosity goes from innocence to responsibility and into this reality that we are never really prepared for. There are times when I sit and think of my childhood and how my parents never really sat down and had "that talk" with me about life and what to expect when it came to being an adult...but I had to learn the hard way and as of now I'm still not prepared for the challenges that has been bestowed upon me in these days and the days to come.

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I've experienced hardships, bad relationships, let downs from family and so called friends and the lists goes on and on. Yet I am far from innocent and I can't put the blame on anyone for my trails and tribulations but myself. I've reflected so many different images due to what I've been through in regards to relationships. I let my past get the best of me to the point where when I was in bad relationships with men who didn't know my worth, let alone me at the time I held on and fought for these men hoping that they would change and see the best in me, but of course after a while of fighting I gave up and moved on. When I had good men in my life I reflected the negativity, anger and wild behavior that was reflected to me from past relationships that caused me to lose these great men because they were fed up with the things that I once was fed up with. I am now in my upper 30's and I still have a lot of work to do with-in myself in order to get through this school of life and reality.

Not too long ago I had a man in my life that would've done any and everything for me despite what I had put him through. We had numerous fights, we both made mistakes that would have cost us our relationship at the time and we even took breaks  because the negative emotions were too strong...but yet we still found our way back together after so much drama, but the damage was to strong and the trust was gone.

I decided to fight for what is rightfully mine and that's the love that was always there and always will be  and that was the love I had within myself...
The saying "What you won't do and have not done, someone else will come in and do it 10 times better then what you should've did in the first place" is so true it's scary! He is now with a woman who came in and swept him off of his feet who treated him the way a good man should be treated and he did have feelings for her even though their time together was short, but the way she acknowledge him and put him on a pedestal made him feel like the king I could have made him feel but did not. In all reality she was just there to fill a void of what was missing in our relationship. I can actually say that no matter how and what she did for him his heart was always with me as he once stated.

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I finally realized that I want a love like no other, a love that is my birthright and blessing. I will not let my past take a hold of me and my significant other. I still have a lot to work on and I do not know what the future holds but I am able to say I am ready for love in all forms! The only way that I will succeed if I continue to acknowledge the universal love within myself first and foremost.

Love is a huge part of our lives from the day we are born to the day that we die and even beyond death, LOVE is always and will be there. How can we feel love from anyone else if we don't feel or see it with-in ourselves? In order for a relationship to blossom and become the main attraction we have to work on ourselves first, so when life challenges try to get the best of you, you are completely prepared and ready without much of a fight!!!

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So when life throws you lemons, make some damn good lemonade!!

Theresa Zollicoffer
Relationship Coach and Wedding Officiant
Twin Soul Connections

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